Yesterday, I had the chance to celebrate my grandmother’s 95th birthday with my family. It was particularly sweet because the night before, we celebrated my daughter’s 8th birthday with a sleepover party. It’s not often that we get all five generations of our family under one roof, especially on such a momentous occasion.
My grandmother, Louise Jones Walton (nee Coleman) was born on March 26, 1916 in Oklahoma. The child of sharecroppers, she loved to learn but was only able to get through the 8th grade as her responsibility to the family farm came before studies. She married one of her classmates, Nathaniel Jones and they had one child, my mom, Betty. But Nathaniel died of diabetes in the early 1940s. My grandmother remarried Alonzo Walton, a child of sharecroppers like her, and an army man like her first husband. Together, she and Alonzo traveled through Europe, settled in New Jersey and went back to school to get their GEDs when they were in their 60s. Grandma even went on to take some college courses. She also learned how to swim around that time, became a certified lifeguard, and taught children how to swim as well.
I am inspired by my grandmother’s energy, loving spirit and unending curiosity. So far this year, she’s traveled to San Francisco, Atlanta and New Jersey from her home in Arkansas to visit with family. When we said we wanted to have a party to celebrate this milestone birthday, she reminded me to make sure to invite my mother-in-law, Claire, who my grandmother has grown increasingly close to since they both became widows. She also continues to share her stories.
During the party, she told us her favorite, about the first time she met her paternal grandmother, Christene Coleman. Granny Louise was less than ten years old when her mother brought her to a tee-pee on the bank of a creek in Ada, Oklahoma. Inside, Grandma remembers seeing her grandmother with long braided hair and beaded moccasins on her feet. I am so grateful that my grandmother has always shared her stories and that my children have the experience of knowing their great-grandmother, Louise.